Who are you?
Through out the years, I have been very blessed to do all of the things that I am very passionate about. I am a bullying prevention educator, creative director, model, athlete and a fitness trainer.
Where are you from?
I was born in the Philippines and moved to Canada 4 years ago.
Why did you want to participate?
We, human beings are so similar yet so different. We all have the same 24 hours in a day but it is our decision how efficient we would like to use our time as we go through different struggles and challenges. Like everyone else, I have been through a lot of endeavors but as I share my story, I hope girls, ladies and women out there will be encouraged to follow their hearts and pursue something that they are really passionate about.
What is a defining moment that challenged you and made you a stronger person?
I have always been bullied because of my skin color. I used to be called "The Big Dark Moon" in elementary school but despite this, I always daydream of becoming a model and an actress. I tried my luck by signing up with an agency even though most models that were hired have fair skin. Where I am from, beauty is equal to having a white complexion so I would use whitening lotion, cream and soaps. I would use a hat and an umbrella when I walk outside so that I won't get dark.
"You are too DARK for TV and magazines!!" This is the phrase that I hear over and over when I go to auditions in Philippines. I have been to literally hundreds of castings and auditions only to land as an "extra" in tv commercials. One of my closest friend even told me "If you just had white skin, you will be successful in this industry" I almost gave up! But I was holding on to the dream that one day, I will achieve my goals. I used this negativity as a motivation to be better, stronger and to push myself harder.
How are you able to overcome adversity and what did it teach you about yourself?
I moved to Canada years ago and saw a modeling competition poster, I told myself " I am sure I would not win but I will give it a try, I am used to agencies slamming their doors on me anyway!" True enough, I did not win but I was offered a modeling contract! It was the best day of my life. That day, I saw my dreams unfolding right in front of my eyes. I had to assure myself, this is real! this is real!
I learned that after years and years of trying and failing, you should not give up. If you work hard and believe in yourself, all of your dreams and aspirations will come true and the right place and right time.
What would you tell a younger version of yourself today?
Everything happens for a reason. When things crumble apart or you feel that the world is on your shoulders or when you have lost everything and ask: "Why me?" Hang in there. Be strong and be brave! Remember that a diamond cannot be formed without high temperature and pressure.
